From saying “I do” to changing careers together: Meet the married Staffordshire funeralcare duo

Alan McGarry, Funeral Director at Co-op Funeralcare Stafford, Meir and Stone, and Sue McGarry, Funeral Arranger at Co-op Funeralcare Stafford, first crossed paths in September 1983. At the time, Sue was working as an office junior at a local foundry and Alan had started as an apprentice estimator at the same place of work.

Their bond grew stronger over the years, and in 1995, after a few years apart, they reconnected and later married in 2001. With their professional lives previously intertwining, it was only a matter of time before they found themselves working side by side again but this time it was in funeralcare.

After many years spent as a self-employed haulier, Alan’s role was impacted by the pandemic. However, eager to continue to do meaningful work during such uncertain times, Alan joined the funeralcare sector and began a new role at Co-operative Funeralcare Wolstanton.

Commenting on his transition into funeralcare, Alan said: “Transitioning from being a haulier to working in funeralcare was a huge adjustment but it has been incredibly rewarding. It’s a sector I never imagined I’d find myself in, yet I truly enjoy what I do and feel fulfilled knowing I’m making a meaningful contribution to people's lives."

Sue, who served as a Borough Councillor before her career change, was inspired by Alan’s dedication and the important nature of his work. The more Alan spoke about his experiences, the more Sue felt drawn to a career change. After much reflection, Sue applied for a Funeral Arranger position at Co-op Funeralcare and was offered a role at the Stafford branch, where she would work alongside Alan.

Working together as a married couple in funeralcare has been a natural progression for Alan and Sue. Alan said: “We’ve always worked together in some form over the years. It’s just what we’ve always done.”

Sue added: “Working together works for us. We both know we are lucky to see one another regularly, not just having our morning coffee or sitting down together in the evening; it’s great to spend time together and speak regularly during the day.”

The couple has also learned valuable lessons from their roles in funeralcare that have shaped their outlook on life. Sue said: “Working in this sector has taught us that every moment is precious. Supporting families who have lost their loved ones is an honour that is beyond any comparative position we have ever held. Being in funeralcare has also brought out the empathetic and sympathetic side to us that would normally only be seen within our own four walls.”

As for their advice to other couples working in the same field, Alan and Sue recommend maintaining professionalism while also supporting one another. “Listen to one another and do not take each other for granted,” said Alan. “Remain professional at all times but know that personal conversations and cuddles are there when you get home.”

To find out more about Co-op Funeralcare Wolstanton, visit their website.